Sabado, Mayo 25, 2013

LOVE AND HATE RESULTS

Would you choose to hate or to love?

 

" Why did you love me, what did you like in me?"

I always had this question and seems not to believe that a handsome looking guy like my husband would love a simple looking lady like me.

My husband would then jokingly reply "Because your cup is "C"." followed by a laugh. (Well, for the ladies, I guess you know what he meant) Of course, that answer is not sincere. He had told me for the _th time that he love me just for no other reason at all but because I am me.


I am a bit taller than my husband but that did not make him a less of a man in my eyes. My love for him was enough for me to see that he is the tallest guy in the whole wide world and that is enough for me.

Like what the Proverbs say:

Proverbs 10:12

New International Version (NIV)
12 Hatred stirs up conflict,
    but love covers over all wrongs.

Kawikaan 10:12 (Tagalog)
Magandang Balita Biblia (TPV)
Sati-saring kaguluhan ang bunga ng kapootan, ngunit ang pag-ibig ay pumapawi ng lahat ng kasalanan.

In the 23 years of our relationship, we do also had arguments and discussions.  I have seen a lot of stories in the movies how a couple would choose to hate each other and concentrate on seeing what seems to be lacking to one another which would later on create a conflict and result to separation or divorce. I am glad we did not try and never dare going into that point.I am glad our love is much bigger than those arguments and conflict. 

I cannot sleep if he is angry with me or me angry with him. I would rather clarify matters first before we go to bed...to get what would sooth me or forgive and understand.  I choose to love...love everything about him that I disseminate all his shortcomings and give no room for hatred.

As a mother or a parent, I feel the same for my kids. I guess we all are...that is why NO PARENT WOULD SAY THAT THEIR KIDS ARE UGLY because we love them so much. If some parents had a heart to say their kids are ugly, well, maybe they have their own reasons but for me all my kids are good looking and the best.

Prayer:
Our Heavenly Father, Let us choose to love than hate...for hatred cause so much pain and problems... not only to our family but to our friends, colleague and people that came into our lives. Plant the seed of love that bears the fruit of patience and understanding, hope and forgiveness...that we may learn to give others a chance to live a happy life. In this world, Lord, No one is perfect. We need love to conquer all.  In Jesus name I pray. Amen.

Lesson Learned:

The power of love is immeasurable.

30 komento:

  1. I'm always a "lover, not a fighter" :) I agree with you, Hatred stirs up conflict! Thanks for the post. I really like this, especially the prayer in the end.

    TumugonBurahin
  2. I'd choose to love always! :) This is a good reminder to start another week. Thanks, sis!

    TumugonBurahin
    Mga Tugon
    1. Have a great week, Sis. Meikah! You are most welcome! God bless!

      Burahin
  3. What a sweet post for your man. I choose to LOVE all the time (to answer your blog post title)

    TumugonBurahin
    Mga Tugon
    1. Praise God! Itd a nice choice Bro. Ron! God bless!

      Burahin
  4. Love conquers all! I also have no time to hate!!!

    TumugonBurahin
  5. That was my neverending question when hubby was still the bf. A lot of girls fawn over him. Then I trusted him more, it's a matter of choosing and that I think time is short so I would rather love him now with all my heart then experience it later for being afraid of all the hate.

    TumugonBurahin
  6. choose to love even if... same thing with my husband, so hard to answer why i love him so. we always end up, what's NOT to love?

    TumugonBurahin
  7. Very well said Sis! I have learned a lot of lessons in life especially about relationships. I had my shares of ups and downs but I never regret that I have loved wand was loved. That's a wonderful feeling that shouldn't be set aside. We get hurt in the process, that's a fact, but having experienced it is enough to take the bitter sweet of life.

    TumugonBurahin
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    1. Indeed, Sis. Krizia. God had blessed you with experience in preparation for a better life and love. Hurray!.. for a stronger Krizia. God bless!:)

      Burahin
  8. I'd rather love than hate but depends, sis. I'm only human and I still feel this emotion especially when someone tries to belittle my family. Btw, would you like to be each others' follower?

    TumugonBurahin
    Mga Tugon
    1. One can be angered when hurt..that is very understandable but as we gain our senses back..I like your choice..Love! I would love that idea..lets follow!!! God bless!

      Burahin
  9. In relationships there up and downs, misunderstanding but along the way, the LOVE is more powerful than hate.:) nice post!

    TumugonBurahin
  10. I would rather choose to love then hate as it will only make one so bitter. good to know that you will work out your disagreements.

    TumugonBurahin
    Mga Tugon
    1. yes, with God's guidance we were able to work out what ever issue we had...seems love is always working. We all pray for this.God bless!

      Burahin
  11. I would choice to love.. a good relationship always find ways to work out any differences.. love..love..love..

    Rosemarie/Gven-Rose

    TumugonBurahin
  12. Just yesterday, the boyfriend and I had a fight. Things were said, and I even asked him to go home to his mom, but when things cooled down he sent me a message and I'm pretty sure all will be well. He'll be coming home here from work. It really is a choice, everyday. And it is so easy to be carried away with anger, but it also not so hard to choose love - all the time. Truth is, I don't get angry a lot anymore, because I have long accepted that there are things I cannot change and there is more to love. :)

    TumugonBurahin
    Mga Tugon
    1. ohh..that is so sweet.So true Sis Vera, there are things that were created and we just have to let it the way it is. I'm glad you choose love and always forgive. God bless you and you boyfriend! love..love..love!!!

      Burahin
  13. Love of course. It's a nice feeling to experience pain because you know you have loved. :)

    TumugonBurahin
    Mga Tugon
    1. hmmm..I don't know why, but your simple comment sounds sweet! :)

      Burahin
  14. I always choose to love. And aside from love, trust and respect should always be in a relationship.

    TumugonBurahin
  15. that's a bit love story of yours, nabitin ako hahaha....love conquers all

    TumugonBurahin
  16. Love of course. Staying in love should always be a work in progress. I admire your 23 years of love. I hope we can get there too.

    TumugonBurahin
  17. From all what we went through, I still choose love. I can't explain but I can always feel love that's why I choose love no matter what. :)

    Mommy Maue
    www.ourfamilyblogsabout.info

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